In celebration of Mother’s Day we asked each of the lovely boho beauties featured in our new ‘Mamas & Babes’ lookbook to share with us a few of their favorite moments of motherhood.
Isobel Benesch of Bel & Beau with son Holden
A perfect day together is spent…
Being outside, exploring. One of the most amazing things about having a little boy is their adventurous spirit. It must be something innate in boys or perhaps it’s just Holden’s always-on-the-go/curious personality, but we are constantly moving, exploring, imagining.
And there’s something about having a little boy that makes me want to put on a cape and mask, build blanket and pillow forts, splash in puddles, dig through mud, climb trees, and imagine that the maps we draw lead to the world’s largest treasure chest.
What’s the best part of being a mom?
Getting the opportunity to see the world through a child’s eyes. As a mother, you realize that children are connected to the world in a way that adults are not, noticing all of the little things that make up our surrounding environment that adults have long forgotten how to notice, too busy with life to notice. Holden’s childlike wonder at the most mundane fascinates me to no end.
A lesson I learned from my mother is?
That I could be anything I wanted to be when I grew up. My mom always pushed me to follow my dreams and to think outside the box. She has always supported and encouraged me.
What’s been the most memorable moment so far?
Holding him in my arms for that first time, and then watching my husband hold him for the first time. No one could have prepared me for that instantaneous bond I felt to that tiny little human.
What’s one lesson you’ve learned from being a mom?
To really live in and appreciate every single moment because time moves way too fast. Before my son was born, life was rushed. Life revolved around where I was going…getting to work, getting to the next meeting, getting home to my husband, getting to dinner, getting to bed…a ceaseless list of deadlines. Of course, I enjoyed my life, but I failed to notice all of life around me and truly enjoy every minute.
Having Holden changed all of this. He taught me to look at time with slow eyes. I now swim in every minute of our waking hours, soaking up every last drop. We take the long way home on our morning walks, stay at the park slightly longer than initially planned, and leave the light on a little past bedtime. The true urgency to self-imposed deadlines has been realized. And through this slowing of time, I have discovered things about life that I never would have noticed if I hadn’t slowed down to be truly present in each and every moment.
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Photography by Taryn Kent